Category Archives: Harness

SpareParts Tomboi II Boxer Brief Harness

By popular demand, SpareParts introduces the versatile Tomboi II.

Just this past August at the Ventura Pride, a customer came up to me in our booth and asked me “Are they here yet?!?  When is SpareParts doing boxer harnesses? I NEED one.”  I couldn’t have been more pleased to text her a picture from the trade show in September that we didn’t need to wait any longer!  For those of you who “don’t want to be caught without it,” there is the Tomboi, until now only an underwear style harness that is both comfortable and practical.  However, starting NOW, SpareParts has brought to market the new Tomboi II Boxer Harness!  It has GREAT stylings, comfortable fit, and they’ve thought of EVERYTHING.  With the bullet pockets, and double hole option, and packer ready, these new boxers are going to be practical for so many occasions!  I love the Black and Red and Purple with Black options in Nylon, but there will also be Rayon in all Black, which will be the equivalent of the Modal that is carried in the Tomboi regular brief line.  Take a peek here to see what’s here!

Tres and her team at SpareParts have created an incredible line that covers the bases.  What can I say?  Of all the harnesses out there, we have been so pleased to carry the SpareParts harnesses, with their quality and versatile options, you are certainly not going to be “caught without a spare”!  Whether you’re looking for a practical everyday-use harness, Joque or Theo are it, or a super sexy, feminine style harness, like the Sasha or Belle… where you can wear gartered stockings with it!  Wow!

Having seen these boxers on, they are not only really good looking as a pair of boxers, they are so dang practical!  Perfect for packing, or as a harness!  Pockets for bullets!  and OHHHH so comfortable!  In sizes from XS to 5X!  These boxers are truly amazing!

Check them out online at

Shiri Zinn Black Harness – US Exclusive!

Finally, The Shiri Zinn Harness in Black!

Ever since we opened the store, first as Kama Sutra Closet in 2009, now Trystology, we have carried Shiri Zinn’s incredibly soft Lambskin Harnesses!  With the delicate beading and adjustable style, are some of the most feminine harnesses available on the market!  I loved it when I was told by a vendor that these harnesses were the “heterosexual ‘wanna-be'” harnesses, as I have to admit, it’s probably true.  Though I have had many lesbian customers who love this harness! For truly durable, everyday harnesses, we sell the Spareparts harnesses… but for the women who want to feel soft and sexy and have that “rawr” saucy look, we have the Shiri Zinn harness. And one of the most amazing things is that whether you are a size “0” or “16” you can wear this harness!  You see, sexy has no size!

Shiri Zinn’s philosophy is that “it is only through quality that we can challenge prejudices and preconceived notions about sexuality. [She] intend to challenge these prejudices and uncover unexpected glamour in this marketplace through the medium of design.” Thus we have been blessed with some of her most amazing works.  The Red and Pink Harnesses and Ceramic Dildos have survived the years, and have become some of our most  unique and popular items in the store.
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Every now and then over the years, a customer would come in and ask, “Can I get this in Black?”  I’d respond with “Wouldn’t that be amazing!  I’ll see…” and finally, Shiri and I were able to make this happen!  Coming in the Fall 2015, we will be receiving this amazing harness in BLACK!  The thing for me is that there are no other harnesses out on the market that are made in as soft a leather, as feminine a style and as darn sexy as this Shiri Zinn harness… and now in Black!  It will soon become part of any worthy lingerie collection, because this harness could be considered one of the most sexy crotchless panties available.  Have you seen the way that it frames the bottom?  It will also be one of the most sought after harnesses for partner play.

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Whether it’s worn with Mimi Crystal Pasties, Bijoux Indescretes Reusable Pasties and Kixie’s thigh high stockings, or some amazing lingerie as an accent, this Shiri Zinn Harness in Black is sure to be a show stopper!  We are proud to say that we have the US Exclusive on selling this unique harness.  It will be available in Mid-October to Early November, just in time for the holidays!

You can Reserve your Shiri Zinn Black Harness for $179 at  They’ll be here before you know it!

Sexy SpareParts Bella Courture Harness Lingerie

SpareParts HardWear has outdone itself with their new offering, the Bella Couture Harness Lingerie!  Self described as:

“…distinctly dangerous blend of sensuality, sophistication, and drama—and the most intoxicating lingerie harness in our line. With her, everything smolders: delicate stretchable lace, a cascading bow, and the perfect peek of rear cleavage. Bella cuts a stunning silhouette—and casts a spell impossible to shake.”

It’s hard not to see the beauty, sensuality and intoxication in her design, lines and silhouette.  Here are the pictures of this new “smoldering” beauty!

SpareParts Bella Couture Harness Lingerie

SpareParts Bella Couture Harness Lingerie

SpareParts Bella Couture Harness Lingerie, back

SpareParts Bella Couture Harness Lingerie, back

As SpareParts describes “Bella cuts a stunning silhouette—and casts a spell impossible to shake. The durable O-ring allows the wearer to choose from single or double dildos in perfect comfort without losing its shape. Bella’s breathable, barely-there fabric is luxuriously soft and ideal for all-day wear. From the midnight rendezvous to the morning motorcycle ride, Bella’s ready.”

We are so pleased to offer the entire line of SpareParts Harnesses at Trystology. You can see them at