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Vibrators for Couples! Saucy!

Remote-Controlled Partner Play for Him and Her

Sometimes you just want to have some fun!  With remote controlled sex-toys, customers have been “playing” inside and outside the bedroom for the last couple of years.  With the We-vibe couples play toy the We-Vibe Classic, she wears the toy and both partners share in the vibration.  It’s also a fun toy outside the bedroom. However she’s the only one who can feel the vibration!  I’ve always thought that wasn’t fair, because as much as we know men like remotes, women also like the ability to “play” with their partner, outside the bedroom!

The wait for a solution is over!

I have paired two fabulous remote-controlled vibrators… the Lelo Hula and the Lelo Oden 2… for the ultimate in partner play!  While you have to be in the vicinity, meaning it’s not Bluetooth enabled (that’s a whole other story), it makes remote play at home or outside the bedroom a whole lot more fun!

Lelo Hula Beads Remote Controlled Vibrator

Lelo Hula Beads Remote Controlled Vibrator

First, we start with the Lelo Hula.  This is a great remote controlled toy that is amazing at assisting with pelvic floor tightening!  You insert it into the vagina, and turn it on.  Leave it going for half an hour or so, while you go about your business.  Really!  It’s that easy and fun!  The remote has 8 different settings, as well as different power levels.  The Hula can also be used internally during oral sex, or laid externally on the labia and clitoris.  Overall a fun toy that’s waterproof and rechargeable.

Lelo Oden 2 Remote Controlled Vibrating Ring

Lelo Oden 2 Remote Controlled Vibrating Ring

Next is the Lelo Oden 2.  The Oden 2 is a great vibrating ring for men.  With two ring options, one for more restriction, the other for more comfort, it’s a personal preference as to which he uses for hands free clitoral stimulation during lovemaking!  It’s quiet, powerful, and with the remote you get the same 8 sensations, and various power levels.  AND there’s Sensa-motion, where the toy responds to your movement.

So how do we work them together, you might ask?  Each partner turns on the toy, and puts the toy in place… This doesn’t mean the toy is vibrating, it’s just on, and ready for use with the remote control. For men, I recommend the more open ring, with the vibrator pointed down toward the testicles.  For women, you can insert the Hula either way, with the string down, or up.  I suggest up, so the rotating movement is closer to the G-Spot.  Once you have your products in place, you each have your remote, and are ready to go out to dinner.  Or play.    Now the fun thing about these products, is that they both can work off of the same remote!  REALLY!  So when one remote is turned on, and vibration is increased, both toys start to vibrate.  Yes, that means if anyone else in the restaurant happens to be wearing a Lelo remote-controlled toy, they too will have their vibe start.  Crazy, right?!?

All’s fair in play with remote controlled toys, and I love that we have a way in which both men and women are able to play with their partners outside the bedroom.  For more fun ideas, check out our kits at

Sir Richard’s Condoms Gives Back!

Sir Richard’s Condoms.  Quality, natural condoms with a cause!

I was so surprised to find out that Sir Richard’s Condoms is now a part of Jimmyjane!  It makes perfect sense!  Jimmyjane is such a quality conscious sex toy company presenting some of the best sex toys in the industry, and Sir Richard’s Condoms are some of the best condoms on the market today!  Not only do they have a great product, they have great packaging!  They just “look great”!

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AND they are all natural!  Their website states, “Sir Richard’s Condoms are made of all-natural latex and silicone (lubricant). We do not use any fillers in our natural latex, which is a common practice in the industry. Our condoms are free of glycerin, parabens, spermicide and petrochemicals. They are Vegan-certified and PETA-approved with minimal latex odor.”  How cool is that?

Check out Trystology talking to Sir Richard’s Condoms at the 2015 ANME trade show:

If all that doesn’t have you convinced you should try them, check out their buy one give one policy!!!  Every time you buy a Sir Richard’s condom, they will give one to a worthy cause!  They say, “We want to make donations to the causes you care about most, and we invite you choose the next recipients of the condom donations generated by the ‘Buy one, Give one’ social responsibility program.”  What other condom company do you know of that does that?

Sir Richard's Condoms Charity Image

Sir Richards condoms come in Classic Ribbed, Pleasure Dots, Extra Thin and Extra Large… covering all bases!  And they come in 12 packs, as well as mixed 3 packs!  You can get your Sir Richard’s Condoms at

New Devine Playchests!

Devine Playchests are some of the only storage available for toys and travel… and they are some of the most beautiful!  Trystology has carried Devine Playchests since we discovered them almost 5 years ago!  We are excited to announce that we have received the newest addition, the Purple Playchest, in addition to the Red, Black and Pink/Black!  These incredible storage carriers hold more than you can imagine!  Take a peek!

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As you can see, with a Hitachi Magic Wand, Shiri Zinn Minx, Vibratex Sugar Pop, Jollies Jollet, We-vibe 2 Plus, NJoy Plug and Tryst from Nobessence, there is still room for Afterglow Wipes. Liquid Silk lube, Intimate Organics Body wash and Massage Oil and Storms of Pleasure Basic Under the Bed and Over the Door Restraint kit!

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Here are all the colors, on our wall!  Rockin’, Right?

You can get one for yourself at


Marika Vera Lingerie Hottest Gift YET!

Trystology has just received what could arguably be the hottest gift yet!!!  The Birkin Bondage and Birkin Holiday by Marika Vera!!!

Marika Vera Lingerie is among the most sensual, and downright sexy we’ve ever seen, so the opportunity to introduce this designer to our customers at this time is fortuitous.

The Birkin is a renowned  Marika Vera lingerie piece recreated and transformed into an erotic Swarovski accessory with the purpose of dressing a bare neckline like a necklace, when you step Outside the Bedroom these holidays’.

100% silk charmeuse / champagne colored Swarovski crystal

marika-vera_birkin-holiday_details  marika-vera_birkin-holiday_frontmarika-vera_birkin-holiday_backThe Marika Birkin Bondage and Birken Holiday can be found at Trystology in store in Ventura, CA 93001, or by ordering over the phone at 888-801-8952. Give us a call!

Incredibly Beautiful Lingerie…

It’s been almost two years since we opened the lingerie store at Trystology.  Building on the concept of “Empowering Women to Own Their Sexuality” we opened a lingerie store to provide a resource for women that reflected more sexuality… not just a basic “bra and panty” store!  In doing so, we brought in some amazing designers that create truly sexy pieces, or present items whose fabric is so sensuous when worn.  In bringing in these diverse designers, we do feel as though we’re curating a resource for women and couples to rely on for their most intimate nights… or for any night, for that matter! DREAMCATCHER - DRM3390 chemiseSM

One of the designers I wanted to share today is a new vendor for us, Christine of Vancouver!  Christine’s chemises, gowns and robes are some of the most beautiful I’ve seen out on the market.  The fabrics she’s chosen not only have beautiful patterns, but wonderful heavy weight silks.  My favorite of this season is the Dreamcatcher collection!  The feather patterns on the silks are amazingly vibrant, and beautiful, and the way Christine drapes the fabrics in each of the styles to insure that the black is on the shoulders on the short kimono robe, and flatteringly on the waist on the long robe, is amazing!  The short chemise is also incredibly flattering on most body styles, and is the ultimate in feminine!


Another of the Christine pieces we have is the Black Cherry Diva Chemise with delicate black lace on it, and the Pleated bodice chemise in a long style in black cherry and short style in black.  To compliment these pieces, we have brought in a most delicate, and extremely sexy sheer with lace short robe!Diva Chantilly Chemise sm


This is but one of the incredible designers featured at Trystology in Downtown Ventura, CA.  You can also see our collections online at

Private Arts Surf Fest Undies

By @ Amber St. Clare

 I love all things surfing, so when I saw these cute surf theme printed undies, I had to have them! The Private Arts Surf Fest Lace Panties are made in Southern California, and printed with a fun surf print on the front and back of the panties. The panties feature a cotton lined crotch, and a stretch lace body in a cute high cut panties style that shows a little cheek in the back. Cute! The stretch lace is really comfortable and hugs your curves. These panties come in sizes S, M, L. I like that the print covers the entire panty both front and back and creates a fun theme.

The front of the panties show surfboards in various colors with flower prints and a lot of really pretty colors. The back features retro looking surf vans with boards on the top like surfers used to do all the time! Really cute and fun! Each pair is $30, and they also have a lot of other fun and artistic prints if surfing isn’t your thing! Many of the designs have matching lace bandeau bras that can be purchased separately also. Can’t wait to add a few more of these to my collection!


Lascivious Playing Cards

By @ Amber St. Clare

Lingerie inspired playing cards! Lingerie designer Lascivious created a luxury deck of playing cards in two different decks, one is the Love Deck, the other is the Lascivious Deck. I have the Love Deck and it’s so cute! Each deck comes in a black Lascivious card box, and features 53 cards, each displaying a work of art that from international artists that show love, and sexy images inspired by lingerie. So fun and cute! Each of the cards feature pretty illustrations. Definitely a flirty way to add some fun to a usual game of cards. These would be ideal for any Lascivious fans out there also! Each deck of Lascivious Playing Cards is $25 and you can find them at Trystology.

Simone Perele Couture Demi Cup Bra and Tanga Panties

By @ Amber St. Clare

I’ve been lusting after a few Simone Perele pieces for awhile now. I love the delicate and feminine designs of lush laces and beautiful tulle. I saw the Couture design, which features cute little embroidered stiletto heels on the cups, and it immediately went on my wishlist. I recently got the Simone Perele Couture Demi Bra and matching Simone Perele Couture Boyshort in Black. It also comes in a lovely ruby red color too! I hadn’t tried the Simone Perele line before, so I was quite excited to finally try this luxury French brand. The bra features unlined cups in a demi cup style, with lace at the center gore and around the sides. The band of made of satin and one strap features a cute little silver colored stiletto heel charm with a dainty ribbon bow. The cups are semi-sheer and feature a pretty embroidered design, with stiletto designs on each cup. The pretty and unique thing about this bra is that the cups also feature corset style boning on each cup, to help give the breasts support and a smooth shape.

The detail is lovely, and the design is even prettier in person. The stiletto embroidery paired with the black embroidery detail is very nice, and the tulle cups are soft and not scratchy on the skin. I really like the corset boning on the cups, they offer a unique look and shape. The band offers a nice amount of stretch but is also firm and stays put on the shoulders. The lace at the gore and around the band of the bra is really beautiful. It’s a lovely bra, and a really great introduction to the Simone Perele line. I also like the matching Tanga Panties, that are made of the same tulle and lace material, with embroidery detailing and a stiletto on the front, and on the back of the panties there is a small silver stiletto charm and a tiny bow. Cute! I was surprised that the panties were a bit big on me. I had heard that the Simone Perele line can run a bit small in the cup, so I thought maybe the panties might run a bit small, so I went with a size Medium instead of a Small like I normally would. The cups fit nicely though, and the panties were just a bit big so I’ll go with a Small next time. Good to know, that for me, the sizing seems true to size.

You can find this beautiful and oh so sexy Simone Perele Couture Demi Cup Bra for $110 and the matching Simone Perele Couture Tanga Panty at Trystology. They carry this range in cup sizes B-E, and bottoms sizes XS-XL.

Sexy Stocking Stuffers: Bijoux Indiscrets

By @ Amber St. Clare

Stocking Stuffers and little gifts that can be added to larger gifts can add a smile to the recipient, and thee are many cute stocking stuffers that won’t make you break your budget. Bijoux Indiscrets makes some incredibly fun and sexy accessories that would make great little trinkets this season. In this post I’ll be showcasing a few of my favorite Bijoux Indiscrets items that are available at Trystology and would make great goodies for $20 or less!

Bijoux Indiscrets Bling Bling Diamond Body Dust ($19.50) – This little shimmer compact makes such a cute gift! The plastic twist jar container fits in the palm of your hand, and when opened up reveals a pretty white translucent shimmer powder that can be dusted all over the body. The shimmer ads a pretty touch, and can be applied on your neck, décolletage, arms and legs and even sprinkled in your hair. It’s also kissable, even if you get caught beneath the mistletoe you’re all set! ;) The shimmer is very fine and leaves a really pretty glitter against the skin. It comes with a little powder puff that fits in the jar, so you’re all set to use this powder wherever you go! Perfect for taking in your purse for touching up your bling throughout the night!

Bijoux Indiscrets Les Petit Bonbons Blind Passion Mask ($13) – This cute sleepmask makes a great little stocking stuffer! Enjoy a restful sleep and keep the light out of your eyes with this black sleep mask, with a satin finish, and a elastic band to keep the mask in place while you sleep or relax. The band is stretchy and should fit most heads, and the mask measures 7 inches across. The front of the mask features words like “love” and “fantasy”. It also doubles as a sexy little blindfold! This mask is super comfy! Comes packaged in a cute little pinstriped box, perfect for gift giving.

Bijoux Indiscrets Pom Pom Luxe Feather Tickler ($14) – A fun and cheeky little feather tickler! A must have for the 50 Shades of Grey fan in your life. This playful feather tickler can be a cute gift idea for couples. The soft black feather is smooth and feels so nice against the skin, and the round plastic black handle is easy to hold. This tickler is discreet too, and can even be put on your dresser or in your lingerie drawer for a pretty decoration. This affordable little accessory would be great paired with the other two Bijoux Indiscrets goodies too!